AI & the Local Church · Part IV of V
Minors raise the legal stakes in ways worth naming specifically.
I'm not a youth pastor. I'm an attorney with experience in technology and AI governance, and this piece isn't about youth ministry philosophy; plenty of good people are already writing that. It's about the specific legal and practical exposures that show up the moment AI tools touch minors, a meaningfully different risk category than anything covered so far in this series.
Most AI tools aren't built for kids, and their own terms say so
Nearly every major consumer AI chatbot's terms require users to be 13, sometimes 18, or to have parental consent below that age. Any AI tool the ministry itself selects or recommends should be checked against its actual age requirements before it's put in front of students.
Data collected from minors carries a higher legal bar
COPPA places real restrictions on collecting personal information from children under 13 without verifiable parental consent.1 If your youth ministry uses any AI-powered tool that collects names, photos, voice, or written input from students under 13, that tool's data practices need to be checked against COPPA, not just assumed fine because it seems harmless.
Photos, video, and biometric-adjacent tools need a second look
AI-powered photo and video tools for youth event slideshows increasingly use facial recognition or similar processing. Some states have biometric privacy laws that require consent before collecting face or voice data, and for a minor, that means a parent's consent. Check what a flashy new tool actually does with faces before adopting it.
Consent needs to be specific, not assumed
General "photo and activity" consent forms that predate AI likely don't cover AI photo enhancement or chat-based tools processing a student's questions. Updating consent language to specifically name AI tool use closes a real gap, not a theoretical one.
☐ Check age requirements before adopting any AI tool for youth programming.
☐ Assume COPPA applies if children under 13 are involved in any way.
☐ Look twice at anything doing facial or voice processing.
☐ Update consent forms to actually name what's being used.
None of this requires becoming a privacy lawyer. It requires treating "does this touch a minor" as its own checklist item, every time.
1 The Children's Online Privacy Protection Act (COPPA) is enforced by the U.S. Federal Trade Commission and restricts collecting personal information from children under 13 without verifiable parental consent. Read the FTC's guidance.